Lessons learned today
Sep. 30th, 2009 12:19 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
One: When you are eating mac and cheese raw because you don't want to take the time to cook it- you're hungry.
Two: When you look at the clock and see that it's 12:21, and you still have to take a shower, and you've been awake since five, and you still plan on setting your alarm for 3:00 am, just so you can talk to your boyfriend before he goes into work- you're in love.
Okay, so I already knew the latter. He and I have decided that we're going at our speed, and our speed is a good speed for us- and we brought in a married couple who knows both of us to be our accountability partners and keep us in check.
We're looking at marriage. We're SERIOUSLY looking at marriage. In fact, it's more of an, we're going to get married- it's just not official yet.
If he breaks up with me, I'm never going to get over it. Same goes for him if I break up with him.
It's a good thing that's not going to happen. This relationship? It's a forever thing. And I rather like that.
Two: When you look at the clock and see that it's 12:21, and you still have to take a shower, and you've been awake since five, and you still plan on setting your alarm for 3:00 am, just so you can talk to your boyfriend before he goes into work- you're in love.
Okay, so I already knew the latter. He and I have decided that we're going at our speed, and our speed is a good speed for us- and we brought in a married couple who knows both of us to be our accountability partners and keep us in check.
We're looking at marriage. We're SERIOUSLY looking at marriage. In fact, it's more of an, we're going to get married- it's just not official yet.
If he breaks up with me, I'm never going to get over it. Same goes for him if I break up with him.
It's a good thing that's not going to happen. This relationship? It's a forever thing. And I rather like that.